Ignore and doubt yourself. Sometimes listening to yourself and getting in touch with your intuition is important. But what if you don’t like what you have to say to yourself? What if you have patterns of thought that aren’t serving you? Sometimes it’s better to allow them to be there and ignore them, rather than trying to push them out. Other times, it’s even important to doubt yourself… that is, doubt what you think you’re capable of. We often underestimate our potential, so it can be beneficial to create the habit of doubting what you think you can do. It’s often much more than you think.
3、虚怀忘我
不时聆听自己的心声,感受直觉的认知是相当重要的。然而,要是你一点也不想听那些逆耳忠言怎么办?要是你把自己的那些拙招臭棋当成是英明决策又该如何?此时,把它们撂在旁边凉快凉快要比一意孤行好得多。有时甚至最好怀疑你是否真的就象自己想象的那样高明。一般来说,人们常常会低估自己的潜能,这倒有利于我们养成防止头脑过热的习惯,而出现头脑过热现象的机率远比你想象的要多得多。