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Feel before you do. A lot of the time we create to do lists or start projects based on what we want to get done or want to accomplish. The feeling is supposed to come after we’re done. We’re supposed to feel good by accomplishing. While this approach seems very logical, it doesn’t always work too well. It’s much better to start with the feeling you want to create, and then choose the actions you want to take that will create that feeling. This is a hard habit to create, because it doesn’t seem reasonable and requires a lot of trust. You’ll also have to have the courage to stop doing a lot of things that don’t create the feeling you want. That takes a lot of guts. But it’s worth it.
4、酝酿成功
很多时候，我们办理列在表上的事项或启动某些项目都是基于自己想做那些事，或想要完成那些项目的意愿。事情办成了我们或许会感到轻松惬意，项目园满完成之后我们也许会觉得心满意足。然而，每当我们认为这类感觉会顺理成章地不期而至之时，它却往往羞羞答答，若隐若现。因此，你不如从工作开始就找到预期的感觉，然后从打算采取的措施之中选择那些能酝酿（成功）感觉的付诸实施。要养成这种习性确实不容易，因为它似乎不合情理而且需要对它充分信任。此外，你还得有勇气终止众多的、不能产生预期感觉的那些事。养成这种习性要花费你大量的心血，可那值得。