4. "No one wants to date a ..."

　　没人想和一个...约会。

　　Unfortunately, some jobs come with certain stereotypes that can make a prospective date run for the hills. For example, being a lawyer or therapistcould make you a dating pariah because nobody's idea of a good date is to argue or be psychoanalyzed!

　　很不幸，有些刻板的工作让约会离你远远的。比如，律师或临床医学家的工作可能让你和约会无缘，因为没人会认为好的约会是辩论或被进行精神治疗。

　　Solution: Be yourself, not your job. If you have a job with a poor career dating profile, don't reinforce these prejudgments. Be aware of the stereotypes that go along with your job title and avoid discussing work-related topics until you and your date have a better understanding of each other。

　　解决之道：做你自己，而不是你的工作。如果你本来的工作就会给别人一种不适合约会的形象，那自己就不要再增加这一负面影响了。要注意你工作职位中的那些陈腔滥调，直到你和约会对象有更好的了解之前不要谈和工作相关的事情。