7. Touch--intimacy between married people is very important and touching is a means of communication that reflects closeness, connection and love; it is your way of keeping the spark alive.

抚触——情侣间的抚触非常重要，它可以增进情感，传达爱意。它是情感交流的一种方式，它可以让爱的火花常燃不熄。

8. Talk about dreams--dreams of the future that is; if you don't share your dreams with your spouse; then who?

谈论梦想——说说对未来的憧憬。试想，若不和伴侣分享你的梦想，那么还能同谁讲呢？

9. Select a song that can be "our song" —— this sounds like a cliché, but it can be nice, don't you think?

选一首歌作为“你俩的歌”——听起来有点老套，但是不是很美妙？