男人说:I'm sorry you feel that way. 你那么想我感到很抱歉。
女人的理解:I'm being a psycho. (他认为)我神经兮兮的。
男人本意:I just really want this argument to be over. 我真的不想再吵了。
Women like to hash things out, talking issues through from start to finish. Guys, on the other hand, have much more of a flight instinct when it comes to confrontation--especially if he doesn't fully understand why you're so upset.
女人们喜欢刨根问底,将问题从头到尾说清楚。而另一方面,当发生冲突时,男人们本能地更想要逃避——尤其是当他不能充分地理解你为什么如此不悦的时候。