儿子小学毕业了，虽然他比过去更加刻苦，但依然没有赶上他的同桌，不过与过去相比，他的成绩一直在提高。为了对儿子的进步表示赞赏，她带他去看了一次大海。就是在这次旅行中，这位母亲回答了儿子的问题。

Now, the son no longer worries about his rankings, and there are no longer boring guys who would inquire his rankings in primary school, because, with the 1st ranking, he is accepted by Tsinghua University. Back home in winter vacation, he was invited to address the students and parents in his high school. In the speech, he mentioned an valuable experience in his childhood, “…When my mother and I was lying on the beach, she pointed to the front and said, ‘Do you see the seabirds scrambling for food over there? When the waves come near, little birds can rise quickly while “clumsy” sea-gulls would take more time to complete the process. However, have you noticed birds that finally fly across the endless ocean are none other than “clumsy” sea-gulls?’” The moving speech provoked many mothers present into tears, including his mother.

现在这位做儿子的再也不担心自己的名次了，也再没有人追问他小学时成绩排第几名，因为他去年以全校第一名的成绩考入了清华。寒假归来时，母校请他给同学及家长们做一个报告。其中他讲了小时候的一段经历：“我和母亲坐在沙滩上，她指着前面对我说，你看那些在海边争食的鸟儿，当海浪打来的时候，小灰雀总能迅速地起飞，它们拍打两三下翅膀就升入天空；而海鸥总显得非常笨拙，它们从沙滩飞入天空总要很长时间；然后，真正能飞跃大海横过大洋的还是它们。”这个报告使得很多母亲流下了眼泪，其中包括他自己的母亲。