医生的儿子从19楼一跃而下,留下一封遗书,信中留言:最想爸爸陪他,最想看电影,最希望快快乐乐……儿子往生之后,爸爸才明白,人生中最珍贵的不是成就,而是亲情。
A doctor’s son jumped from the 19th floor of a building and left a posthumous letter which expressed his strong desire for staying more with his father, going to see a movie with his father, etc. Not until his son committed suicide had the doctor realized that the most precious thing is not career achievement, but the tight and intact family bonds.
可惜千金难买早知道,很多美好的事,往往简简单单就被轻易错过了。
It is no use crying over spilt milk. We have missed a lot of precious things in our life without knowing to cherish them.
事实上,我也错过一些事。错过的理由很简单:以为还有明天。
Actually, I also missed something precious before. The reason why we would have missed those precious things is less than simple: we had thought that we could still own them tomorrow.
事实上,明天是不可靠的。要不,日休禅师怎么会说,很多人的一生中,只做了“等待”与“后悔”两件事,合起来就叫“来不及”。我们老爱说:长大再说,有钱再说,老了再说……可是到了那时候,却什么都不必说了。
Nevertheless, tomorrow is actually by no means reliable. There was a famous Buddhist monk saying that in many people’s lives, they have only done two things: waiting and regretting. The result is that they were always too late to cherish what they had before they lost it. We would often claim to do something when we grow up, or when we have money or when we become old, etc. However, when we reach the condition we have expected, we could no longer do realize our wish any more, because we have lost it by then.
(中文: 来自小故事网 译者:赖小琪)