An old saying goes, “Surround yourself with the people you want to be like.” Successful people want to surround themselves with successful people. Optimists like to be around optimists. How can you tell if you’re hanging around with the right group of friends for you? Here are 15 signs that you are surrounded by good friends who care about you and not just what you can do for them!
俗话说得好,“你想成为什么样的人,就和什么样的人待在一起。” 成功人士都想和成功人士待在一起。乐观主义者希望身边的人都是乐观主义者。你怎么能知道自己身边的朋友是适合自己的?下面的这15个信号能告诉你,不只是你关心朋友,身边的朋友也关心你。
1. Your friends listen to you
你的朋友倾听你
A good friend can tell when you need an ear, or just to take the floor for a few minutes and talk something out. More importantly still, they help you determine where you have good, solid, actionable ideas and where they think you’re a little off base.
好朋友能知道你什么时候需要倾听,或知道你只是需要几分钟,把一些话说出来。更重要的是,他们能帮你判断什么时候你的想法是好的、可靠的、可行的,什么时候你的想法是错误的。
vt. 不顾,不理,忽视