你总是会从他们嘴里听到真相
Good friends don’t lie. (Except on rare occasions of the “Does this dress make me look fat?” sort. Those kinds of lies don’t count, because they are intended to spare your feelings.) When the chips are down and you really need to be told the truth, your friends may hate it…but they’ll do it. This applies in situations like when your friends tell you maybe you’re partying a little too much or working too hard. If they tell you something like this, they’re speaking from the heart. You owe it to them and your friendship to listen.
好朋友不会骗你。(除非是那种“这件衣服是不是让我看起来很胖?”这样偶尔出现的情况。这种谎言不算,因为他们是为了照顾你的感受。)当到了关键时刻,你真的需要知道真相时,你的朋友也许会讨厌那样做……但是他们还是会那样做。还有的时候你的朋友告诉你,你聚会的次数也许太多了或工作太卖力。如果他们对你说类似的话,他们是真心的。你要多谢他们并要认真倾听。