认为说得多就能解决问题

Believe it or not, there is such thing as too much communication. Have you ever discussed or argued your point so much that you start saying everything that comes to mind? Sometimes those things that come to mind aren’t the best to come from your mouth… But this happens because you’re talking so much that you’re saying things just to hold your own in the conversation. This is how you know you’re communicating too much. Sometimes you need to keep things to yourself, and while this doesn’t mean hiding things from your partner, it means picking your words carefully and saying just what needs to be said to resolve the issue at hand.

无论你信不信，话太多就是个问题。你有没有过多地为你的观点而讨论或争执，以至于什么事都随着性子说？有时心里想的并非就是最适合表达出来的...但往往这就因为你的话太多，所以才会在为自己据理力争时说错话。这个就是沟通超出范围的表现。有时你需要有所保留，但并不意味着要你瞒着另一半，而是指在处理手头之事时仔细斟酌你的话，只需说出能解决问题的就行。