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4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode.
4. 彼此信任，给予原谅。
It’s so easy to fight about stupid nothings and hold a grudge, but that’s not the way to be happy in a relationship. You have to forgive your partner after a fight, even if it’s something major. You might feel like they’ve betrayed your trust, but if you don’t give them another chance, then your relationship can never feel natural again. There will always be a rift because you don’t trust your partner, and feel like any time your back is turned, they’ll be doing something hurtful. On the other side, your partner won’t feel loved in the relationship because they’ll have never gotten your full forgiveness. Let your heart love easier by truly forgiving and honestly trusting your partner.
两个人难免会为一些无所谓的事情争吵甚至耿耿于怀，但这样对感情关系毫无益处。哪怕事关重大，吵完之后你也得原谅对方。你可能会觉得对方辜负了你的信任，但如果不给他一次机会，接下来的关系肯定会尴尬别扭。这将成为一个豁口，因为你不再信任对方，觉得任何时候只要你一转身，他就会做出伤害你的事来。而且相应地，对方也觉得这段关系再也没有爱情可言，因为他从来没觉得被原谅过。请放宽心去爱吧，请真心原谅对方、真诚信任对方吧。
