1.Before I was in the peer group, I didn't know I could stand up to my husband.
stand up to 经得起;抵抗;勇敢地面对
Is this building going to stand up to the strongest gales?
这座建筑能经得住最强劲的大风吗?
He hit me, so I hit him back–the first time in my life I'd stood up to him.
他打了我,我就还手打了他–这是我生平第一次反抗他 。