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Signs you are not living for yourself

你不是为自己而活的迹象

You need someone else to like you

你需要别人喜欢你

If you are someone who lives too much for others, you are often afraid that others will hate you or be rejected by them. This fear often drives you to do something to please others and to avoid being rejected by them.

如果你是一个为别人而活得太久的人，你经常会担心别人会讨厌你或拒绝你。这种恐惧常常驱使你去做一些取悦他人的事情，以避免被他们拒绝。

You will also have the desire to be needed by people and believe that you will have a chance to receive more love from those who need you. There is one thing that you may not know, before you want to be loved by others, you must love yourself.

你也会渴望被别人需要，并且相信你有机会从那些需要你的人那里得到更多的爱。有一件事你可能不知道，在你想被别人爱之前，你必须爱你自己。

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