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Signs you are not living for yourself

你不是为自己而活的迹象

You lose your own opinion

你失去了自己的观点

The most obvious manifestation of those who live excessively for others is the loss of their own opinions and positions. For them, self-worth is calculated by the trust and recognition of others.

过分为别人而活的人，最明显的表现就是失去了自己的观点和地位。对他们来说，自我价值是通过他人的信任和认可来衡量的。

According to Myers, these people often live with the thought: "I only deserve to be loved when I give everything I have to people around". They feel really good about being appreciated by people and believe that people only care for them when they are useful.

按照迈尔斯的说法，这些人生活中常常带着这样的想法:“只有当我把我所有的东西都给了周围的人，我才值得被爱。”他们对被人们欣赏感到很高兴，并且相信只有在他们有用的时候人们才会关心他们。

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