3) What’s Said: “Get back out there!”
What’s Heard: This can send the signal that the single person is simply not doing enough speed or Internet or blind dating, or worse, that she isn’t living a full enough life.
“Singles are not by definition hiding out in their closets curled up in the fetal position all day,” says Anderson. “Most are likely working, meeting friends out for dinner and events, working out.”
说者:多出去接触人群
听者:我单身因为我不喜欢和人打交道,我不喜欢上网,我没有相亲,总而言之,我是个失败的人。