3 Understand your thought process. Is your natural response to be angry, sad or confused? Recognize how you react.
4 Understand your motives. Do you follow certain guidelines or are you rebellious in nature?
弄清自己的思路,什么时候你会很生气,什么时候你会很难受,又是什么时候你觉得很困惑?
理清自己的动机。你做事有原则么,还是出于直觉?