Cancer, Taurus and Leo are the security-conscious and home-focused signs. They don’t so much want a soul mate as a someone to help set up house, produce a family and give stability. For Leo this also includes status and an admiring audience.

巨蟹座、金牛座和狮子座是注重安全感、家庭观念重的星座。与灵魂伴侣相比，他们更想要一个能帮他们建立家庭、繁衍后代并对他们死心塌地的人。对狮子座来说，对方还要有地位并钦佩自己。

The two most likely to desperately need another half are Libra and Scorpio, though for not the same reasons. Libra is known as “the relationship sign”， not because it’s driven by matters of the heart. It’s an Air sign10, fairly detached, and never feels comfortable without another half to make it feel whole. Scorpio on the other hand is intensely emotional and really needs an equally passionate partner to merge with. Therein lies their bliss.

两个极度需要另一半的星座是天秤座和天蝎座，不过他们的缘由不尽相同。天秤座是有名的“伴侣星座”，但这不是因为他们对另一半的需求源于内心，而是因为它是风象星座，他们超凡脱俗，而且如果没有另一半让他们觉得完整的话，他们始终感觉不自在。而天蝎座是一个情感强烈的星座，他们真的需要对等的激情才能达到水乳交融—这才是他们幸福的根本。

1. delirious a. 极度兴奋的，狂喜的。

2. self sufficiency: The state of not requiring any outside aid, support, or interaction, for survival。通常译为自给自足，文中指个性独立。

3. put off: 推迟，延期。

4. animal side: 兽性主要指为了满足食欲、色欲等需求的本能。

5. claustrophobic a. 患幽闭恐怖症的，导致幽闭恐怖症的。

6. inexplicably a. 无法说明地，难以理解地。

7. If you say that something can be done when/if push comes to shove, you mean that it can be done if the situation becomes so bad that you have to do it。

8. propensity n. (性格上的)倾向，习性。

9. chop and change: to keep changing what you do or what you plan to do, often in a way that is confusing and annoying for other people. 变化无常，朝三暮四，没有定见。

10. 古代西方哲学家认为构成自然界并衍生万物的物质是水、火、土、风四大元素。地球依着黄道运行其实就是四大元素的流转变化，因此黄道12星座也可分为水象星座(巨蟹座、天蝎座、双鱼座)、火象星座(白羊座、狮子座、射手座)、土象星座(摩羯座、金牛座、处女座)、风象星座(天秤座、水瓶座、双子座)。水象星座象征春天，重情感；火象星座象征夏天，重行为；土象星座象征秋天，代表务实、稳重；风象星座象征冬天，重智慧与沟通。