2. Act Confident 表现得自信
Even if you don't feel at all confident, you can behave as if you are. Once you start acting confident, you'll begin to believe in yourself.
即使你内心一点也不自信,你可以表现得很自信一样。一旦你开始假装自信,你就会开始相信自己了。
Let's say you've started doing freelance photography on the weekends, and you've got your first few paying gigs. Your clients don't need to know that you're new to this. They don't need to hear about how nervous you are. If you behave like a professional, they'll see you as one – and you'll start to see yourself through their eyes.
加入你开始在周末兼职摄影,并且你已经获得了少量的酬薪。所以,你的客人不需要知道你是个新手。他们也不会听到你有多么的紧张。如果你表现地很专业,他们就会正视你,你也可以从他们的眼中看到自己的存在。
Do it: Figure out one way in which you could act confident, starting right now.
这样做:找出表现自信的方法,现在就开始做。