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2. Build up men. In the words of Oprah: "The truth of the matter is, men do need to be made to feel like they’re winners. They do need to have themselves built up." Yeah, I know. It’s painful to read the first time, isn’t it? I was so disgusted by this assignment when I first read it, I had a hard time implementing it in my life. But instead of being insulted by my stream of compliments, gratitude and ego-boosting, the men in my life seemed happier, more amenable to change and more relaxed. I hesitate to use the words "putty in my hands," but boy, are they far more susceptible to flattery than any woman I’ve ever met.
赞扬别人。引用奥普拉的话说“每个人都希望别人认为自己是个大赢家，他们需要别人的肯定。”
