New year's resolutions: 新年目标
Don't rush into making resolutions: 不要急于设定目标
Use a framework first: 先设立思维框架
Framework: 思维框架
Ask yourself some soul-searching questions first: 灵魂拷问(去年做过节目, 大家可以搜关键词找到)
今天介绍的新年思维框架,有以下这些组成部分
Identity: 身份
Who are you? 你是谁
Who are you going to be in 2022? 在2022年你想成为什么样子?
比如:
An awesome mom? 一个优秀的妈妈?
A supportive husband/wife? 理解支持另一半的丈夫/妻子?
A hard worker? 努力工作?
A patient, joyful person:有耐心、更喜乐的人
Lean in: 积极进取、勇往直前
Step up: 更加积极主动争取
Body & Mind: 身体和心灵
Do one hard thing every day: 每天做一件困难的事情
比如:
身体方面:
Commit to moving your body every day: 下决心每天都动一下
心灵、头脑方面:
Commit to reading x number of books: 设立一年的读书目标、并量化
Meditate: 冥想
Money: 金钱
Reverse engineer: 倒推
How much do you want to make? 你想要赚多少钱?
How much do you want to save? 你想要存多少钱?
Salary, funds, side gigs: 薪水、基金、兼职收入
The point is to be intentional: 重点是要有意图、有意识地规划
Set a giving amount: 设一个捐赠的目标
Time: 时间
Is there something that you want to do, but you're "too busy" to do it? 有没有什么你想做、但一直“没有时间”去做的?
The fact is we make time to do the things that are important to us: 事实是对你重要的事情,你就要腾出时间去做
Make it happen: 实现它
Schedule it in: 放入日程安排
Save time, spend time, whatever, but be realistic about it, be intentional: 不论你的计划是要在某些方面节约时间、在某些方面花时间,总之目标要实际,并且要清醒、有意图
Talent: 天赋、才能
What are you good at? 你擅长什么?
Use your talent: 善用你的天赋和才能
Leverage: 充分利用、杠杆效应
Define talent broadly, not just hard skills, but soft skills: 更广阔地定义天赋和才能。不只是硬技术,还有软实力
Your personality could be a talent . For example, you're good at making people laugh. 你的性格也是你的天赋。比如,你是个开心果。
Think about how to use your talent to benefit others and yourself. It could point to some new professional directions: 思考如何运用你的天赋和才能让别人和自己受益、并且给你的职业方向新启发
Conclusion: 结论
增加新年目标的达成率,有个简单有效的办法:
Tell somebody! 告诉别人你的目标!
Be accountable: 为此负责
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