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6. Get to know yourself. 了解你自己。
When going into battle, the wisest general learns to know his enemy very, very well. You can't defeat the enemy without knowing him. And when you're trying to overcome a negative self-image and replace it with self-confidence, your enemy is yourself. Get to know yourself well. Start listening to your thoughts. Start writing a journal about yourself, and about the thoughts you have about yourself, and analyzing why you have such negative thoughts. And then think about the good things about yourself, the things you can do well, the things you like. Start thinking about your limitations, and whether they're real limitations or just ones you've allowed to be placed there, artificially. Dig deep within yourself, and you'll come out (eventually) with even greater self-confidence。
在要打仗前，最聪明的将军会将敌人了解得一清二楚。如果你不了解你的敌人，你是无法战胜它的。当你试图战胜消极的个人形象，变得自信些话，你的敌人就是你自己。好好了解你知道，开始聆听你的想法，开始编写关于自己和自己想法的日志，分析你产生这些消极的想法。然后想想关于自己的好的方面，那些你可以做得很好的并且喜欢的事情。开始想想什么你的局限性，并弄清楚是否是真的局限了你，还仅仅是你允许摆放在那里虚假障碍。深深的挖掘自己的想法，最终你会更加自信。
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