8. Be kind and generous. 友好且慷慨。
Oh, so corny. If this is too corny for you, move on. But for the rest of you, know that being kind to others, and generous with yourself and your time and what you have, is a tremendous way to improve your self-image. You act in accordance with the Golden Rule, and you start to feel good about yourself, and to think that you are a good person. It does wonders for your self-confidence, believe me。
噢,太老土了。如果这对你来说太老土的话,继续前进。但你应该知道,对别人友好,慷慨于你自己、你的时间和你所拥有的,是改善你自我形象的非常好的方法。你遵从黄金准则行事,你将自我感觉良好,认为自己是个很好的人。相信我,它会对你的自信产生奇迹般的效果的。
One important key to success is self-confidence. A key to self-confidence is preparation. - Arthur Ashe
成功的关键是自信,自信的关键是有所准备。——阿瑟·阿什