2. You can be selfish
你可以自私
It’s normal to be selfish when you’re young, because you need to figure out who you are and what you want from life. It’s acceptable to break up with someone over something that might seem a bit petty just because they don’t seem right for you – because they probably aren’t!
年轻的时候自私是正常的,因为你需要发现你是谁,你想要从生活中得到什么。和某些人因为某些琐事分手只是因为他们似乎不适合你,这也是可以接受的,因为他们也许真的不适合你。
When you’re in your teens and twenties, you need to focus on yourself, because you need to discover who you are and what your career will be. You need to work on things like this, including loving yourself, before you try to make a partnership work for the long haul.
年轻的时候,你需要专注于自身,因为你需要探寻你是谁,你的职业生涯会怎样发展。你需要为这些事情而忙碌,包括在发展一段长期的关系之前先爱自己。