3. You can be single
你可以单身
And you should be! Too many young people think they always need to be in a relationship. If you have this mindset, then you’re more likely to date people who are bad for you just so you’ll be with someone. It’s ok to be single! No one is watching you and keeping track of how long you’re single versus how long you’re in a relationship.
而且你应该单身!很多年轻人认为他们需要恋爱,如果你有这种心态,你很有可能为了找个伴而和不合适的人约会。单身没什么不可以!没有人会盯着你,记录你单身的时间和恋爱的时间哪个更长。
It’s important to be single so you can focus on your own life; when you do find that special someone, your relationship will be that much better because it will be special. You’ll be a well-rounded person, and you won’t have a history of hopping from relationship to relationship with no substance.
单身也是重要的,这样你就可以专注于自己的生活。当你真的找到那个特别的人时,你们的关系会更好,因为它会很特别。你会非常圆满,而且你不会留下一段毫无意义不断更换恋爱对象的历史。