6. Live and love in the moment
活在当下,爱在此刻
Never chastise yourself for falling in love. When you feel something in the moment, you need to let yourself feel that emotion completely. Fall in love, daydream about your future, and, as hard as it may be to do, let yourself get hurt. You’ll learn from all of these moments and all of these emotions.
永远不要因为恋爱而惩罚自己。此刻当你有所感觉,你需要让自己完全投入去感受这种情感。陷入爱河,幻想未来,也许还会让自己受伤。你会从所有这些时刻和情感中学会很多。
It seems like you’d look back and kick yourself for having a crush on someone who was so obviously wrong for you, but you’ll see the past through rose-colored glasses and be glad that you experienced as much as you did.
也许当你回头看,会责备自己怎么会爱上一个明显是错的人,但这段过去依然带着浪漫的玫瑰色彩,你会很欣慰自己曾经尽力去体验。