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4. You’ll fall in love with the wrong person
你会爱上错的人
This is the hardest lesson to learn, because people rarely seem wrong for you at the start of a relationship. When you feel the sparks and the butterflies, you can’t imagine that someone could be bad for you. But they can be, and they will be, and you need to learn how to identify this in others
这是最难学会的一课，因为在恋爱的开始，人们看起来都没什么问题。当你感觉到火花时，你无法想象这个人可能并不适合你。但他们真的可能是错的人，而你需要学会如何辨别。
They can be kind and still be wrong — for you. You should be with someone who brings out the best in you, who is sweet and encouraging and compatible with you, not who you think you should be with to make anyone else happy.
他们可以是好人，但对于你来说，依然是错的人。你应该和一个能让你自己最好一面显露出来的人在一起，他/她应该非常贴心，善于鼓励，和你非常相配。不要为了取悦别人而勉强和谁在一起。
